Stockton-on-Tees Borough Council

Memorial Ceremonies

When making funeral arrangements, some families can feel that they would like the funeral to be as private as possible, but realise that there are many others who also wish to commemorate the life of their friend or colleague.

Often, especially where friends and colleagues live abroad, it may not be possible for them to make travel arrangements in time to attend the funeral. 

In such cases, a Memorial Ceremony may be appropriate.

Registration and Bereavement Services now offer Memorial Ceremonies as part of our Civil Funerals Service.

A Memorial Ceremony is usually held between three and five weeks after the funeral. It is a chance for all who knew the deceased to gather, socialise and share their memories of the life they knew. It is also a chance for the family to show their acknowledgment and appreciation for the role that each friend or colleague played in the life of a loved one.

A Memorial Ceremony is less formal than a funeral, and provides the opportunity for a number of speakers to share their memories, anecdotes and thoughts with the other people in attendance. Favourite or especially poignant pieces of music are often included in the ceremony.

As with Civil Funerals, a Memorial Ceremony may be held almost anywhere, except for religious buildings; if a large number of guests are expected, then the gathering will need to be held in a large enough venue with catering facilities, a public address system, ample parking and good road access. The function room at a hotel or a modern village hall is especially suitable for this type of ceremony.

The fee for a Memorial Ceremony is £100 (Monday to Friday) and £125 (Saturday).  Please note that ceremonies outside of the Borough of Stockton-on-Tees may incur a small additional fee.

For more information on Memorial Ceremonies please contact us.